Tag Archives: domestic violence

Cognitive Dissonance

This is not a happy post, so *TRIGGER ALERT*… Various things are on my mind tonight, and hope that they will merge into something coherent.  When we are in an abusive relationship, involved with someone with psychopathic tendencies, if not … Continue reading

Posted in Billingshust, cheating, cognitive dissonance, domestic abuse, domestic violence, Gail Brink, Gary Ridgeway, incest, infidelity, Judith Mawson, liars, lies, lying, male victim, psychopath, psychopathy, Rick Brink, Ryan Wyngarden, West Sussex | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 6 Comments

Trust, Doubt, and Certainty

Trust, from Merriam-Webster: trust noun \ˈtrəst\ : belief that someone or something is reliable, good, honest, effective, etc. trust verb \ˈtrəst\ : to believe that someone or something is reliable, good, honest, effective, etc. : to have confidence in (someone … Continue reading

Posted in certainty, Claire Marshall, domestic violence, doubt, Paula Khier, Paula Simmons, Paula Vanzetti, psychopath, psychopathy, trust | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 6 Comments

Sharing the Journey

I would like to share two blog articles from my friend, L.  The first one is personal and precious to me, and I appreciate it SO much.  L knew I was having a bad day — she could hear it … Continue reading

Posted in child abuse, domestic violence, emotional abuse, friendship, justice, justice system, psychopath, psychopathy | Tagged , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Six Octobers

It occurs to my that my birthday is now just shy of a month away.  I grew up in the “big city” of Little Rock.  Little Rock is in the dead center of Arkansas, with the Ozark Mountains to the … Continue reading

Posted in betrayal, birthday, birthdays, Claire Marshall, domestic violence, lies, memories, October, Paula Khier, Paula Simmons, Paula Vanzetti | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , | 4 Comments

An Open Letter to Nikki

I received the following email: Emh3sk3y 7:32 AM (8 hours ago) to me you got to stop writing about people you do not know!! ok after reading your fabricated bullsgit of a blog im not happy you named people and … Continue reading

Posted in domestic abuse, domestic violence, liar, lie, lieing, mental health, narcissism, narcissist, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Nikki Sevo, Nikki Stevens, Paula Khier, Paula Simmons, Paula Vanzetti, psychopath, psychopathy, sexual abuse | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

“I’m the narcissist” and here is what I have in store for YOU!

Someone sent me the following.  I don’t know who wrote it, and I so can’t give attribution.  But it’s a wonderful glimpse into how a narcissist or psychopath operates, and how an innocent victim can be ensnared while not realizing … Continue reading

Posted in Borderline Personality Disorder, mental health, narcissism, narcissist, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Paula Khier, Paula Simmons, Paula Vanzetti, personality disorder, psychopath, psychopathy, sexual abuse | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Death of a Dream – Suicide, Part 6

But eventually I did learn the truth (that my wife had lied to me when she told me she owned her home, and that she’d spun countless other lies to hide the truth), got my spousal visa from the UK … Continue reading

Posted in blind, blindness, bullying, child abuse, FTM, low vision, mental health, Paula Khier, Paula Simmons, Paula Vanzetti, psychopath, psychopathy, sexual abuse, suicide, transgender, transgendered, vision impairment | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments