Category Archives: mental health

Physical Abuse, Warnings, and Blaring Red Flags — Gone Ignored

After I’d married my wife, and after I’d moved to the UK despite her lies about owning her home, which had delayed my move by a full year, I received an email from my friend, K’s father.  I’d only met … Continue reading

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Why I’m Not a Therapist

This is going to come under the category of “one of those blog posts that is hard to write.”  It’s one where you have to dig deep to feel the rhythm of your own heart beating, glimpse your soul in … Continue reading

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An Open Letter to Nikki

I received the following email: Emh3sk3y 7:32 AM (8 hours ago) to me you got to stop writing about people you do not know!! ok after reading your fabricated bullsgit of a blog im not happy you named people and … Continue reading

Posted in domestic abuse, domestic violence, liar, lie, lieing, mental health, narcissism, narcissist, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Nikki Sevo, Nikki Stevens, Paula Khier, Paula Simmons, Paula Vanzetti, psychopath, psychopathy, sexual abuse | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Transitioning in Pictures

As the Buddha points out again and again, the very essence of human life is impermanence.  Nothing is static, and so we are all undergoing constant transitions.  But living in this strange world with igneous rocks, slugs, blueberries, iPads, rainbows, … Continue reading

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Live or Die? – Suicide, Part 7

The Last Page Revisited No, I don’t want to die.  Not today, not tomorrow.  I want to know the “end of the story,” and I can’t find out what happens if I shut the book before I read the last … Continue reading

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“I’m the narcissist” and here is what I have in store for YOU!

Someone sent me the following.  I don’t know who wrote it, and I so can’t give attribution.  But it’s a wonderful glimpse into how a narcissist or psychopath operates, and how an innocent victim can be ensnared while not realizing … Continue reading

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Death of a Dream – Suicide, Part 6

But eventually I did learn the truth (that my wife had lied to me when she told me she owned her home, and that she’d spun countless other lies to hide the truth), got my spousal visa from the UK … Continue reading

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