Monthly Archives: September 2014

What Are the Signs (of a Psychopath)?

I start with a bit of humor.  Photo not my own, but taken by a friend.  K Street, NW, in Washington, DC.  My old stomping grounds.  You can’t trust signs.  Cannot resist a bit of humor to start off a … Continue reading

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Psychopaths and Sexual Orientation (for GLBT Survivors)

I have co-opted the above graphic in previous posts.  I think it gives a fairly accurate representation of gender identity, sexual orientation, gender expression, and biological sex.  For some reason, I chafe at the phrase “sexual orientation.”  We can choose … Continue reading

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Kintsugi is this: Kintsugi (金継ぎ?) (Japanese: golden joinery) or Kintsukuroi (金繕い?) (Japanese: golden repair) is the Japanese art of fixing broken pottery with lacquer resin dusted or mixed with powdered gold, silver, or platinum a method similar to the maki-e … Continue reading

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I’m a Fungi

Okay, so I don’t have DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder), so to be grammatically correct, I guess I should say I’m a fungus?  No, wait… the point I’m trying to make is that I’m a fun guy!!  Darn homophones!!  (Darn homophobes, … Continue reading

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Another One Bites The Dust: Psychopath Support Groups and Forums

I would like to share this post from the blog The Ability To Love- Recovery From Psychopathic Abuse.  When you have found yourself to be in a relationship (or suspect your are in a relationship) with a psychopath / sociopath … Continue reading

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Alone? — Not Really

That gnawing ache in the back of your heart — and the TV won’t drown it out.  Silence so thundering you long to hear the ping of a pin drop.  You sit in a cluttered room of familiar objects — … Continue reading

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Six Octobers

It occurs to my that my birthday is now just shy of a month away.  I grew up in the “big city” of Little Rock.  Little Rock is in the dead center of Arkansas, with the Ozark Mountains to the … Continue reading

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