Monthly Archives: June 2014

What Is Love?

Today’s blog post will be an interlude from sharing my story.  I stumbled across a brief interesting article in The Guardian — What Is Love?  Made me stop and think.  Did I ever really love my psychopath and did she … Continue reading

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This blog post will be an interlude from “the story.”  Somewhat.  I would like to point out how psychopaths ferret out their victims’ deepest hopes and dreams in order to “hook” them.  This is a critical piece of the trajectory … Continue reading

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We’re Getting Married!?!?

I would like to begin today’s entry to sharing two interesting websites I recently found: — Lots of good article about recognizing and dealing with psychopaths. — Doesn’t seem to be up and running yet, but once it … Continue reading

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My First Trip to England

I want to begin today’s post by sharing a few books that were helpful to me on my journey.  I have dived into sharing my personal experiences with a psychopath which may seem bleak.  I do intend to write on … Continue reading

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What Happened to the Rabbits? (And Other Mysteries…)

Taking up with where I left off in my last post, my life fell into a routine that centered around Paula.  We quickly switched from Microsoft Messenger to Skype for our video chats because it was more stable and robust.  … Continue reading

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The Early Days — How I Was Ensnared by My Psychopath

It’s time to share a little bit about my psychopath.  I have read the stories shared by many survivors, and some who did not survive.  Also, I have read of the miseries of those who are yet to escape.  There … Continue reading

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There is a passage on page 89 of the Richard Rohr book The Naked Now: Learning to See as the Mystics See: But did anyone ever tell you that Jesus’ first message in the Gospels, which is usually translated as … Continue reading

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